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Mandarin Lesson

Most of us hold that our moods are of ourselves. Actually, our moods belong to others. For a long time, I did not feel well and always upset. My wife comforted me and asked me to see the doctor. “Your condition does matter to yourself. On other condition, how can you make kids feel well when you are not feeling well? Another time, I was so annoyed with the talking of my father. My wife explaining again: “You’d better offer your sincere. As for how to do, you are the master. What we should do is just make them happy.” I deeply regretted for my bad manners.

Man got his own mood ever since his birth. While young, we cried when we hungry and never pretended our secrets. As we grew up, we realized that we can hide our mod and adjust it. It is just like a mask.

心情是別人的

好多人認為心情是自己的,其實,心情還是別人的。一段時間,我身體不是很好,感覺煩燥,妻子對我說,身體不好就去看,你這樣對身體也沒好處啊!你不高興,喊和孩子能高興嗎?還有一次,父親說話,我感覺煩。妻子說,既然父親說了,你就答應,至於你怎麼做,還不是你說了算,我們能為老人做什麼。只能讓他們高興。我也為此深感內疚。

人剛出生就有了心情。那時,餓了就哭,不隱瞞心情。長大後知道了,心情可以掩蓋,可以調節,這才有了面具之說。