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Chinese language study HK – Children’s Self-esteem

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Children’s Self-esteem

Self-esteem is what people think about themselves – whether or not they feel valued – and when family members have self-respect, pride, and belief in themselves, this high self-esteem makes it possible to cope with the everyday problems or growing up.

Successful parenting begins by communicating to children that they belong, and are loved for no other reason than just because they exist. Through touch and tone of voice parents tell their infants whether or not they are valued, special, and loved, and it is these messages that form the basis of the child’s self-esteem. When children grow up with love and are made to feel lovable despite their mistakes and failures, they are able to interact with others in a responsible, honest, and loving way. A healthy self-esteem is a resource for coping when difficulties arise, making it easier to see a problem as temporary, manageable, and something from which the individual can emerge.

孩子們的自尊心

自尊是人們對自己的看法――他們是否感到受到重視――當家庭成員有了自尊、自豪、自信時,這種高度的自尊使人們有可能妥善處理孩子們成長的日常問題。

成功的育兒之道是第一步是讓孩子們知道,他們上家庭的一份子,他們受寵愛唯一的原因就是因為他們自身的存在。通過撫摸和聲音的語調,父母告訴他們的幼兒他們是否受到重視、是否很特別、是否被愛。正是這些信息形成了孩子自尊的基礎。當孩子們在愛的關懷下成長,不管他們是錯誤或失敗,都使他們感覺到討人喜愛時,他們就能用可依賴的、誠實的和愛的方式與別人交往。當出現困難時,他們就能用可依賴的、誠實的和愛的方式與別人交往。當出現困難時,健康的自尊心是一種解決困難的手段,使之容易把問題看作是暫的,能處理的,個人可以從中解脫出來。

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