Alex: So how do you feel about long distance relationships?
Maria: Not that good. I had two relationships by now and both of them ended after me going somewhere. First time I was in Denmark but like I lived on a school in another city and while I was there for four months like I think two months after I went home to him and broke up and then came back to the school and just didn’t really care. And then the second time I went
Alex: Yeah, I guess you’re kind of like me. I have to see the person.
Maria: Exactly.
Alex: Almost, you know, daily.
Maria: Exactly and you can have conversations online and on the phone but if there’s no, I don’t know, it doesn’t have to be much, just like be close, see each other in the eye.
Alex: It’s a big difference, yeah. I did a month when I went home to Australia away…
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Maria: This summer?
Alex: Yeah, this recent summer and like Skype is just not enough. Do you know what I mean? You can see the person, you can talk to them, you know you can kiss the camera if you want but it’s not…
Maria: If you want.
Alex: You know it’s not the same but that’s not to say I don’t think, some people can do it.
Maria: I figure if it’s a very, like if the relationship is very, it’s very passionate or you’ve been going on for a long time because both of my relationships were under one year I think. The first one was one year and the second one was half a year. So if we’re used to staying together then I think you can work it out. I’m just too impatient.
Alex: Yeah, I guess under a year you haven’t really learned to depend on the other person all the time.
Maria: Exactly.
Alex: Or…
Maria: Still going by the passion and if you can’t see the person every day or like whenever you want, then the passion just slowly fades.
Alex: Yeah, agreed.
Maria: But this is your first relationship right?
Alex: Yes it is and I did one month when I went home away from the person and it was just…
Maria: And that was the first time you ever went away from the person?
Alex: Yeah and it was just aah horrible, horrible, horrible, horrible.
Maria: I remember the first time I like traveled while my boyfriend was still at home and it was a week and I was devastated so it’s, if it’s passionate it’s…
Alex: Well I did Christmas away from them when I went to Christmas, I did India for Christmas last year.
Maria: OK.
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Alex: And two weeks was bad enough and then a month and I was just pulling my hair out, do you know? So.
Maria: Yeah, it’s hard.
Alex: It, yeah, it certainly is.
Maria: Yeah.
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under a year
Under a year you haven’t really learned to depend on the other person.
In this case ‘under’ means ‘less than.’ Notice the following:
The whole process will take under a month.
He will be back to work in under a week.
in the eye
Look the other person in the eye.
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When you look at someone ‘in the eye,’ you make eye contact with them. They are looking at you and you are looking at them. Notice the following:
I hate talking on the phone because I can’t look the other person in the eye.
Look me in the eye and tell me how you feel.
passion
Then the passion slowly fades.
‘Passion’ is a strong feeling of desire or love. Notice the following:
Most relationships have a lot of passion at the beginning.
We both have a lot of passion for our careers.
devastated
It was a week and I was devastated.
If you are ‘devastated’ you are overwhelmed with sadness or disappointment. Notice the following:
He didn’t get the job that he wanted and was completely devastated.
She was completely devastated when her team lost the game and the lesson.
pulling (my) hair out
I was just pulling my hair out.
You ‘pull your hair out’ when you feel really frustrated. Notice the following:
If you spend too much time with him you will want to pull your hair out.
Sitting in traffic when I’m in a hurry makes me want to pull my hair out.