learn chinese in hong kong – Seek the most perfect image

Mandarin Lesson

Seek the most perfect image

 

When Danny Bowman was at school, he was so desperate to attract girls, he spent 10 hours a day taking more than 200 selfies trying to find the perfect image.
But his addiction, which began at the age of 15, caused him to drop out of school and lose almost two stone in weight.

He would take 10 photos of himself before he washed and would sneak out of class three times every hour. At 16, he dropped out of school so he could focus on his addiction, and his diet began to deteriorate.
He did not leave his house in Newcastle upon Tyne for six months, and when he failed to take the flawless shot, he tried to kill himself by taking an overdose.
His mother, Penny, managed to save him, but he was forced to seek help after his addiction had spiralled out of control.
The 19-year-old believed to be Britain’s first selfie addict, has now had therapy to treat his technology addiction, OCD and Body dysmorphic disorder – an excessive anxiety about personal appearance.
He has not taken a picture of himself in seven months, and has realised that achieving perfection is impossible.
He told the Sunday Mirror: ‘I was constantly in search of taking the perfect selfie and when I realised I couldn’t I wanted to die. I lost my friends, my education, my health and almost my life.
丹尼•鮑曼讀書的時候,他非常渴望吸引女生的注意,每天花10小時的時間拍200多張自拍照,只為尋求最完美的形象。

他從15歲開始自拍上癮,導致輟學、體重下降了近2英石(1英石=6.35kg)。

他在早上洗臉前要先自拍10張,每一個小時會偷偷溜出教室去自拍三次。 16歲的時候,他為了可以全身心投入自拍而輟學了,他的食量越來越小。

丹尼住在泰恩河旁邊的紐卡斯爾市,他已經有六個月呆在家自拍沒出屋了。照片拍得不完美時,他甚至試過服藥過量自殺。

他的母親潘妮在他自殺的時候救下了他,不過他因為自拍上癮失控後不得不尋求幫助。

這位19歲的少年是英國第一個自拍上癮的人,現在正在接受治療醫治自己的科技上癮症、強迫性神經官能症和身體畸變(對個人形象的過度焦慮)。

通過治療,他已經有七個月沒自拍了,同時意識到完美形像是不可能的。

他在接受《星期日鏡報》採訪時說:“我曾不停地拍攝並尋找自己的完美自拍,當我意識到做不到完美的時候我真的想死。我失去了朋友、學業、健康,甚至我的整個人生。”

自拍上癮也是病!英國少年自拍不完美想自殺。

Dān ní•bào màn dúshū de shíhou, tā fēicháng kěwàng xīyǐn nǚshēng de zhùyì, měitiān huā 10 xiǎoshí de shíjiān pāi 200 duō zhāng zìpāi zhào, zhǐ wèi xúnqiú zuì wánměi de xíngxiàng.
Tā cóng 15 suì kāishǐ zìpāi shàngyǐn, dǎozhì chuòxué, tǐzhòng xià jiàng liǎo jìn 2 yīng shí (1 yīng shí =6.35Kg).
Tā zài zǎoshang xǐliǎn qián yào xiān zìpāi 10 zhāng, měi yīgè xiǎoshí huì tōutōu liū chū jiàoshì qù zìpāi sāncì. 16 Suì de shíhou, tā wèile kěyǐ quánshēn xīn tóurù zìpāi ér chuòxuéle, tā de shíliàng yuè lái yuè xiǎo.
Dān ní zhù zài tài ēnhé pángbiān de niǔkǎsī’ěr shì, tā yǐjīng yǒu liù gè yuè dāi zàijiā zìpāi méi chū wūle. Zhàopiàn pāi dé bù wánměi shí, tā shènzhì shìguò fúyào guòliàng zìshā.
Tā de mǔqīn pān nī zài tā zìshā de shíhou jiù xiàle tā, bùguò tā yīnwèi zìpāi shàngyǐn shīkòng hòu bùdé bù xúnqiú bāngzhù.
Zhè wèi 19 suì de shàonián shì yīngguó dì yī gè zìpāi shàngyǐn de rén, xiànzài zhèngzài jiēshòu zhìliáo yīzhì zìjǐ de kējì shàngyǐn zhèng, qiǎngpò xìng shénjīng guānnéng zhèng hé shēntǐ jībiàn (duì gèrén xíngxiàng de guòdù jiāolǜ).
Tōngguò zhìliáo, tā yǐjīng yǒu qī gè yuè méi zìpāile, tóngshí yìshí dào wánměi xíngxiàng shì bù kěnéng de.
Tā zài jiēshòu “xīngqírì jìng bào” cǎifǎng shí shuō:“Wǒ céng bù tíng de pāishè bìng xúnzhǎo zìjǐ de wánměi zìpāi, dāng wǒ yìshí dào zuò bù dào wánměi de shíhou wǒ zhēn de xiǎng sǐ. Wǒ shīqùle péngyǒu, xuéyè, jiànkāng , Shènzhì wǒ de zhěnggè rénshēng.”
Zìpāi shàngyǐn yěshì bìng! Yīngguó shàonián zìpāi bù wánměi xiǎng zìshā


更多



Related posts: